Somatic Sex Coaching

Your erotic self deserves being met with tender attention
and a curious heart.

Our sessions together strengthen your connection to yourself by helping you facilitate a greater awareness of your own body, building secure attachment, and exploring your erotic energy.


It’s a different way of being with and befriending your body. 

We move slow.

Giving defense mechanisms time to soften and feel the spaciousness of more choice. 

It’s playful and curious.

Somatic Sex Coaching is different for everyone because our experiences of our bodies, trauma, and pleasure are all unique.

It will include building understanding of boundaries, consent, and how to voice those with more ease.

It will include ways to increase bodily awareness of sensations and emotions.

It may offer lessons on anatomy, neurobiology, and ways to bring sensation and pleasure to your body. 

It may include breathing exercises as ways to amplify or slow down erotic energy. 

Sometimes it’s moving beyond touching our erogenous zones to find all the areas of our skin that crave touch and attention.

Sometimes it’s practicing how to share the information you have learned in session with your partner(s) in a way that is connective.

Our first session will be a time to delve into your goals and intentions for our work together and begin building the container that is needed for the process. And we will move at the speed of trust.

Head and shoulders of Jess, a white woman, surrounded by models of genitals.

 

Reasons folks have chosen to work with me:

They want to come out as queer, kinky, or sexual.
They have a hard time holding boundaries with others.
They want to feel more pleasure in their bodies.
They get into their head while having sex.
They have never had an orgasm before.
They have a hard time dating.
Their masturbation routine has become boring.
They feel disconnected from their partner.
They have pain during sex or masturbation.
They want a non-judgmental place to talk about sex.
They need more sexual knowledge.
They're afraid of touching other people or themselves.
Talk therapy hasn’t worked or has run its course.
They want to befriend their genitals.


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Testimonials

Testimonials
Gabriel M.

Thank you a million times for your gift and the kindness you've shown me. In a place and time in my life where no one was able to help me, you were able to. I will forever be grateful for the love, time, energy, and consideration you've given me.

M.H.

Everything I learned about being in relationship and healthy communication with another human being I learned from Jess. She has inspired my ability to relate to others, be present, take care of myself, and ask for what I need by her example and through her encouragement. Without judgement, she inquires, excavates, and holds space for processing. She allowed me to discover what I want for myself and how to care for myself. She has a gift to bring spirit into bodily form and reverence into sexuality.

James T.

It's one thing to be likable, to draw people in, to make them feel welcome and comforted. It's another to shepherd someone through a difficult emotional journey with skill and love. Jess has a rare talent for all of the above. She and I had a session scheduled for a day when -- as luck would have it -- I was feeling incredibly balanced, nothing was amiss, and I didn't have any particular goals for self-discovery. And yet, somehow, with her expert guidance during that session, I was able to tap into something very old, very deep from my formative years, and I learned a great deal about some of the fundamental building blocks of my sexual nature. That knowledge has helped me immeasurably since then. I'm very grateful to Jess for her loving guidance, and for the fact that she is providing this incredibly valuable service to the world.