Resources
It is important to me that you find the care you desire.
If the intersections of my identity are not a match for who you need in a provider, please explore this list of brilliant colleagues.
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Sky Studley
Based in Oakland, CA & online -
Noah Klöze
Based in Victoria, BC & onlineChe Che Luna
Based in Portland, OR & online -
Nic Reveles
Based in San Diego, CA & online
Garland Jarmon
Based in Seattle, WA & online
Books are a way to engage with feelings and ideas that we may not be ready to reveal with another person.
These are books I recommend with a full heart.
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Communication
Tongue Tied
by Stella HarrisThe Art of Receiving and Giving: The Wheel of Consent
by Betty Martin (with Robyn Dalzen) -
Masturbation
BANG: masturbation for people of all genders & abilities
by vic liuSex for One
by Betty Dodson -
General Sex Ed
Girl Sex 101
by Allison MoonEnjoy Sex (How, when and IF you want to)
by Meg-John Barker & Justin Hancock -
Deconstruction from Christianity
Beyond Shame: Creating a Healthy Sex Life on Your Own Terms by Matthias Roberts
Shameless: A Sexual Reformation
by Nadia Bola-Weber -
Pleasure After Trauma
Healing Sex: A Mind-Body Approach to Healing Sexual Trauma by Staci Haines
With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships
by August McLaughlin & Jamila Dawson, LMFT -
Non-Monogamy
Stepping Off the Relationships Escalator: Uncommon Love and Life by Amy Grahan
The Ethical Slut by Dossie Eaton and Janet HardyLove's Not Color Blind: Race and Representation in Polyamorous and Other Alternative Communities by Kevin A. Patterson