E.L.
I saw Jess for a session to integrate some sexual discoveries around my queer identity and it was incredibly helpful. First, she listened with such compassion, openness and understanding. I felt very seen by her, and very safe in the space. Before the session, it was definitely a stretch for me to think about masturbating in front of someone in a therapeutic context, and going into my work with Jess I didn't think I'd be comfortable doing that. After talking with Jess, though, the session very naturally moved into this. It was amazing to feel like I could explore my sexuality - and, more importantly, the messages that came from my body when I did that - in front of another person in a therapeutic way. Jess was incredibly professional. She witnessed me, and guided me into listening to my body's insights and messages, and she had such strong and beautiful boundaries in the way she participated in this process with me. I in no way felt like Jess was sexualizing or eroticizing my process - I simply felt witnessed and guided. It was profound, and the messages I received from my body supported me in accepting new pieces of my identity. Jess has a rare gift for being able to hold this type of space professionally, and I so strongly recommend her services to anyone who would like to integrate and explore their sexuality.
S. Anderson
Mastubation coaching with Jess was profoundly moving, insightful, pleasurable and practically very useful in helping come into connection with my body and pleasure. Jess has a great sense of humour, and is a delightful mix of warmth, compassion and wisdom. Her big heart and loving spirit helped me touch into tender aspects of my sexuality and I loved that she was equally game to join me in the dark, crass shadowlands of my sexual play and desires. I would recommend coaching with Jess for anyone who wants to explore deeper into galaxy of your body's possibilities for pleasure.
Gabriel M.
Thank you a million times for your gift and the kindness you've shown me. In a place and time in my life where no one was able to help me, you were able to. I will forever be grateful for the love, time, energy, and consideration you've given me.
M.H.
Everything I learned about being in relationship and healthy communication with another human being I learned from Jess. She has inspired my ability to relate to others, be present, take care of myself, and ask for what I need by her example and through her encouragement. Without judgement, she inquires, excavates, and holds space for processing. She allowed me to discover what I want for myself and how to care for myself. She has a gift to bring spirit into bodily form and reverence into sexuality.
James T.
It's one thing to be likable, to draw people in, to make them feel welcome and comforted. It's another to shepherd someone through a difficult emotional journey with skill and love. Jess has a rare talent for all of the above. She and I had a session scheduled for a day when -- as luck would have it -- I was feeling incredibly balanced, nothing was amiss, and I didn't have any particular goals for self-discovery. And yet, somehow, with her expert guidance during that session, I was able to tap into something very old, very deep from my formative years, and I learned a great deal about some of the fundamental building blocks of my sexual nature. That knowledge has helped me immeasurably since then. I'm very grateful to Jess for her loving guidance, and for the fact that she is providing this incredibly valuable service to the world.
Aurora May
As a sex worker, I pride myself in my skill and capacity to support to my clients' pleasure -- and in that service role, I occaisionally lose touch with my own desires, or put my pleasure on the backburner. I had an intense work tour coming up and decided to do a series of Masterbation coaching sessions with Jess to intentionally honour and reconnect with my body and prepare myself for the trip. I'm so glad I did this, it was such a gift! I learned new things about my body's arousal patterns that were helpful in working with my clients. I also experienced whole new levels of pleasure in my sessions with clients, thanks to taking the time to really honour my body and desires on my own terms, with Jess' support